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REDUCE STRESS DURING A PANDEMIC

Our upcoming virtual seminar on the stress and affects COVID-19 is having on our nation will be on December 12th from 11:30 am to 2:30 pm (EST).


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There will be a One-Hour Q&A after the lecture, so prepare your questions in advance.


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Donna B. Comeaux

Self-Sufficiency

(in other words, I don’t need anything or anyone)

Daily Devotional

October 10, 2020

At times I wonder what will get me out of my chair, away from my home to intermingle with those in spiritual need; to become more active in the body of Christ. In order to confront this dilemma, I must face some hard truths about myself. 

Why would I not want to share my life? 

To be honest, fear. To be honest, I’ve been there; done that. To be honest, I have what I need. 

But isn’t God’s idea of sharing our lives with one another more about you … more about other people? 

“7On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children. 8 We cared so deeply that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God, but our own lives as well. That is how beloved you have become to us.”  (I Thessalonians 2:7-8)

WOW!

Are you kidding me? 

You mean I’m to care so deeply about you that I should be “delighted to share myself?” 

As I look around my home … at my things … at my lack of need, I’m ashamed to say that I often feel like the rich man in Luke 12:16-20. Let’s read it. 

“And he told them this parable: ‘The ground of a certain rich man produced a good crop. He thought to himself, ‘What shall I do? I have no place to store my crops.’

Then he said, ‘This is what I’ll do. I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I’ll say to myself, ‘You have plenty of good things laid up for many years. Take life easy; eat, drink, and be merry.’

But God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your life will be demanded from you. Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself?’” (Luke 12:16-20) 

What we store up and prepare for ourselves on this side of heaven offers no keys to God’s kingdom. My home, much like yours, is filled with everything this life can provide. And one day I will die, leave it behind, and in the end, it will all BURN UP!!

God’s goodness is evident in our lives today. Each of us is rich to whatever level God has chosen for us. Though it may be unsettling to step out of our comfort zones to fulfill the needs of others, it is no less demanded of us. 

Obedience is a command. Obedience should not be determined by your mood, or hinged to the few minutes that remain at the end of your day. God will not be shy in keeping his promises to you—either to bless you, or to punish you for your complacent behavior. 

I have been complacent. Pray for me. 

Let’s encourage each other to remember God’s commands; to spur each other forward to do and to act out his will for our lives, regardless of how we may feel toward the task in front of us or how we may feel toward our sisters and brothers. 

Prayer:  Oh, God, please begin with me. Mold me. Shape me in any way necessary until your will is fully magnified through your mercy and grace. 

Challenge:  Search your hearts to find the most uncomfortable thing to do for someone else. Pray to God for help. Then, pick up the phone, get in your car, write a note, or do whatever is necessary to fulfill God’s commands for your life. And remember, it could be that you need to let others do for you. Hard, isn’t it?

Amen. 

Donna B. Comeaux

No other credentials other than

being a child of God.

Has Your Lamp Been Removed?

Revelation 1-3

 

As I sat down with my morning coffee, I wondered what I would say, and how I would say it to you. What came to mind is our new journey. For one thing, we are all adjusting to the confines of the Covid-19 pandemic. For another, we are welcoming our new preacher and his family into our congregation.

 

When thinking about the adjustments we all need to make, I can’t help but wonder where I’ve gone wrong … what I need to change about myself … how I can be of better service to others? I think on this because of Revelation 1-3.

 

I imagine myself standing before the throne of God trembling in fear to behold his majesty. When I read God’s pronouncement upon the seven churches of Asia, I couldn’t help but tear up over what’s lacking in my life. I don’t want the Father to sit me down and tell me I’m good in this area of my life, but I lack in another, and if I don’t straighten up, I will be judged.

 

But how can I avoid such fate?

 

The Church of Smyrna and the church of Philadelphia are the only two churches out of seven found without fault.

 

Stunning.

 

What state will our church be in if Jesus comes with the clouds today? And what part have I played in my church’s demise or in my church’s glory before the Lord?

 

I don’t like new beginnings. I like routine. I would rather stay couped up in my house and not visit with a soul. I’m comfortable. Stubborn. Anti-social. I need no fanfare. I don’t care for gossip and I literally hate the telephone.

 

But as I write these words, I’m faced with this question: What am I willing to give of myself to further the kingdom of my Father?

 

The seven churches mentioned in Revelation are in Asia, specifically, modern-day Turkey, in the eastern Mediterranean area, on or near the Aegean Sea coastline, and were under Roman rule.

 

 

Ephesus was a city of 250,000 people, prosperous, wealthy, in the on/near the Aegean Sea, and under Roman rule. The ancient Greek city was located off the coast of Ionia, 3 Km southwest of present-day Selçuk in the Izmir Province, Turkey.

 

Smyrna is a city north of Ephesus – located on the Aegean Sea coastline that was later captured and destroyed by the Greeks, but rebuilt in the 3rd century, to later become an ally of Rome; is the third largest city in the country. It, too, was prosperous and had magnificent buildings. Today, known as Izmir.

 

Pergamos / Pergamon / Pergamum – located in the western portion of Asia Minor and north of Smyrna, approximately 15 miles inland of the Aegean Sea, and was once the capital of the Roman province.

 

Thyatira is located near the Lycus River and it’s where Paul and his companions were invited to stay at the house of Lydia where she and her household were baptized. This city is now known as Akhisar.

 

Sardis is located 50 miles east of Smyrna, 30 miles south of Thyatira. The Christian community was small and weak and a lot of them returned to their old religious beliefs. It was formerly the capitol of Lydia.

 

Philadelphia is located 30 miles southeast of Sardis, founded by Attalus II Philadelphus of Pergamos. It was destroyed by an earthquake in AD 17, but rebuilt by Emperor Tiberius. It is now known as Alasehir.

 

Laodicea is located 40 miles southeast of Philadelphia and 80 miles east of Ephesus in western Asia Minor – Turkey. It was renowned for its fine woolen garments and eye salves. This city is now known as Denizli.

 

The Church of Ephesus forsook their first love – Christ.

 

The Church of Pergamum had those in their midst who worshipped other gods and were sexually immoral.

 

The Church of Thyatira tolerated Jezebel who called herself a prophetess, teaching and misleading God’s servants.

 

The Church of Sardis is dead but pretending to be alive, their deeds incomplete.

 

The Church of Laodicea is lukewarm and is nauseating before the Lord.

 

What state are we in and how have I helped propel our sentence before the Lord?

 

I can’t answer this question for you, for I can’t assume to know what you know.

 

But I can say with certainty that each one of us has a role to play in helping to edify the Church of God. None of us has the right to warm a pew, nod in each other’s direction, cross our legs and criticize, sit back in silence, and carry on.

 

This is the time to pivot … to seize this opportunity … to set goals for ourselves in order to help the church move forward and not backward. We can’t afford to waste time waiting for a preacher, an elder, a younger person, or more families to move in, or our contributions to increase before we change our attitudes toward one another. When I stand before the throne of God, I will answer only for myself.

 

This is serious spiritual business. This isn’t a game. Prayer is not something you say, mere words, but is an interaction with God on behalf of another. Christianity is a spiritual communal affair. It requires engaging with others.

 

And have I mentioned that I’m anti-social and I’d rather stay home, alone, without a telephone?

 

How can you encourage me to change? What good can I be to the church with my selfish attitude?

 

Sadly, the answer is:  I can’t be of use to anyone.   Unless.   I.   Change.

 

And you won’t grow either if you do not change.

We are all called to grow in the spirit by the Word of God.

 

When I think of the seven churches and the seven angels assigned to them, I can’t escape the possible fate we may fall into, both individually, and as a church. I’m hoping my obedience to the Father will increase … my love for the brotherhood will be sincere … and most of all, my love for God will be fervent and without fault.

 

But to love God is to love my brother and sisters. In I John 4; specifically, v.7-11; and v.21, we are commanded to love each other.

 

If I continue to conduct my life … If you continue to conduct your life the same way you did a month ago, what have we profited? Do we not fear God’s wrath? Do you really think your church attendance is enough to ensure you have a seat at God’s table?

 

I want so much more than just to act like a Christian and attend worship service. I want God to change me inside out. I want God to scrub away the callouses until I am raw and tender in heart. I want to look upon people with love–not filled with hate, not by social class, not by political parties, not by ethnicities, not by education, not by financial status. I want to give all of me without complaining, without wishing and hoping for something in return. I want a steadfast love–a love without blemish, a love without fault, a love without judgment.

 

For all of that to happen, I must humble myself before the feet of Jesus and stop playing and acting the part in a play. I must turn in my Actors Guild Awards and replace it with bent knees, and a humble and repentant heart before the Father.

 

For all of that to happen, I must give up my complacency, give up my attitude of “I’ve put in my time. Let someone else do it.”

 

Until that happens, it won’t matter what preacher you’ve hired, how many people have joined our congregation, if we have an adequate number of elders, or if our contributions have increased. You see, if we accomplish all these things and have not love, we will stand before the Lord and He will not fail to voice his displeasure and tell us that we are lacking and have forsaken our first love.

 

Two of the main themes in the book of Revelation is God’s encouragement to the church — telling them that they have a greater future than the chaos surrounding them; and the revelation of God’s awareness of their deeds. A reward awaits those who endure. Jesus is still and will always be the head of all things. He is the King of all kings, God of all gods. In the book of Revelation, God unveils the church’s immediate future so they can be comforted in times of persecution. He’s encouraging you to hang in there, don’t give up, persevere, for when Jesus comes with the clouds the final victory of the Lamb over Satan will occur and we need to stand ready.

 

God knows your deed, your hard work, your issues with complacency and laziness, your unwillingness to volunteer to be of service to the church, your hardened heart, your perseverance, your fears, the tears you’ve shed over disobedient children. Like the seven churches, he knows your hate for wickedness, how you’ve tested friends and loved ones, members of the body only to find them false or lacking, yet, you have persevered and endured for his namesake and have not grown weary. Be of good cheer! Be of good courage for God rewards the faithful.

 

To the Church at Ephesus, he gave the right to eat from the tree of life.

 

To the Church at Smyrna, he promised no pain by the second death.

 

To the Church at Pergamos, he presented them with a white stone with a new name.

 

To the Church at Thyatira, he gave authority over nations.

 

To the Church at Sardis, he promises to never blot out their names from the book of life but will acknowledge them before the Father and his angels.

 

To the Church at Philadelphia, he wrote God’s name and city, the new Jerusalem, upon them.

 

To the Church at Laodicea, he gives the right to sit on Jesus’ throne and Jesus will eat with them.

 

The promises of God are sure, firm, and will not fade with time. He is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. He is, and was, and is to come. Daily renew these words in your mind basis so your spirit can be refreshed.

 

God will not gloss over your complacency. He won’t ignore it. Like he found fault with the seven churches of Asia, he, too, finds fault with me and you. Imagine you are before the Father. What will you confess? Or rather, what is the first thing you will try to hide from him?

 

My encouragement to you today, is, for once, be honest with God. Stop all the talking with one another and talk to God. Confess your complacency. Confess your unwillingness to give of yourself, to be of service to your local congregation, to love the brotherhood of believers. Confess why you are expecting so much in return and no longer willing to give of your time.

 

For anything short of repentance is no repentance at all. And without repentance, there is no seeing the Father face-to-face, no eating at his table, no crown of life, no eating from the tree of life.

 

I am lacking. I must do more.

 

How about you?

 

Are you really willing to run the risk of having your Lamp removed?

September 19, 2020

Donna B. Comeaux

LOVE ON PURPOSE

Ephesians 1

(NIV)

 

            Have you ever asked, “Why did God make us … only for us to die and be apart from one another?” “Why get married then be separated by death?”

            Questions like these are stirred by our quest to understand God’s purpose. There’s nothing wrong with us asking these questions. God knew you would ask. And he’s prepared an answer for you.

            Ephesians 1:4-6 reads,

                      For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love, he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.

            God didn’t wake up one morning and haphazardly decide to form a ball, dig in the dirt, and scoop you out.

            He planned, set things in order, gave his son directions to be carried out later, then put everything into motion.

            After we went astray, he could have withdrawn his hand and turned his back on us. Instead, he followed through with his commitment to love us … planning to love despite our failures. Take a closer look at Ephesians 1. This time let’s zoom in on the adoption:

                        “In love, he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ …”

            This means God prepared a way for us after we fell. He loved us so much that he was unwilling to leave us on our own. He made a way to reconcile us to himself.

            God loved on purpose. This is God’s intent. This is who he is. This is his commitment. We might refer to this as a reckless love … a love without boundaries … a love without fault … an endearing, long-lasting love. If you think of God’s love in this manner, you’d be correct.

            We are called to mimic not only his sacrifice but also his love for us.

            What is it about us … as a people … that causes us to envy one another? What creates our quarrels and causes you to “lose your religion?”

            Go to Ephesians 2:10 and read,

                        For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

            “… prepared in advance?” A workmanship? Created to do good works? What good works?

            Many of us in the body of Christ are excellent in the mission field. We’ve seen countless videos of those who work tirelessly in the jungles of Africa, on the cold streets of Russia, under the watchful eyes of China. Under our breath, we mumble, “I wish I could do that.”

            Those wishes sometimes catch us at a weak moment and it turns to envy. Envy causes us to fight.

            Go to James 4:1-3 and read,

                        What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don’t get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

            This verse covers more than worldly possessions. It covers any and everything that battles or conflicts with the Holy Spirit living within us. It covers our covetous desires to be like sister “so and so.” It covers the desires for your husband to be more like “Brother Moore, Larry, and Henry Joe.” It covers the desires to contribute hundreds of dollars to missions like the rich family over there and covers your urges to butter up to another brother so you can learn how to preach and gain the respect he’s been given.

            God has apportioned all of us a gift and talent he desires for our lives. And one of the most precious gifts he’s given us is the gift of love. He commands it and demonstrates how to acquire it, use it, implement it, and to pass it on.

            You see, no matter where you are placed in the body of Christ, we are to sharpen each other like iron sharpens iron and to love without favoritism. (Prov. 27:17; James 2:9)

            We must, like God, Love on Purpose. We must plan on it. We must center our lives around loving each other. Our every intent when we come together when we pray, when we’re apart when we have a difference of opinion when our politics have instigated a divide when things aren’t going well financially or otherwise … Our every intent … our forever purpose must be to love one another.

            Sometimes, we slip up and … say and do things … that we intended to keep hidden. We intend for our negative attitudes to stay behind the curtain, hidden away from our sisters and brothers in the church. We fool ourselves into thinking that our hearts won’t really be revealed to the naked eye.

            But God says in Matthew 6:21,

                        For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

            This passage is revealing to us that whatever your intent … whatever it is you deeply feel, it will be known. Really? Yes. Your heart follows what you treasure. Your heart acts out or reveals what you treasure most.

                       A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. (Luke 6:45)

                        As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart. (Proverbs 27:19)

            So, if you have a negative opinion about someone … if you are angry and trying to hide it … if you hate but smile in disguise … if you speak softly, but inwardly want to murder … if you act kindly, but want to belittle and tear down those you love, IT. WILL. EVENTUALLY. BE. REVEALED. Why? Because you will act out what you truly believe. Because your heart cannot be hidden. You may fool yourself into thinking you can hide it. But your heart cannot be hidden.

            The love God intended for us to have for one another calls for us to deny ourselves. To carry the burden of others as if it were our own.

            To love on purpose is a mindset. It’s not an emotion. It’s not driven by circumstance. It’s driven by the love we have received from God Almighty. When we self-reflect on the weight of our sins and how God himself has removed us from darkness, we become thankful, gracious, uplifted, relieved, and we become receptors of unspeakable joy. We are to pass this love on to our brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus. And if we do or say anything to destroy or hinder the brotherhood of believers, we might as well fasten a yoke on our necks. For we are not enslaving and hindering a sister or brother, but we are thereby hindering ourselves and have become entangled in the wicked deeds of the evil one. (Galatians 5:1)

            Think twice the next time unholy things are spoken. Think twice the next time you disguise your ill-intent. For God hears, sees, and knows the intent of your heart. (I Chron 28:9; I Samuel 16:7; Psalm 139:1-23) Humble yourselves therefore before the Lord. Speak as godly people. Speak holy and righteous messages one to another. For you are a royal priesthood, holy, and unblemished if you follow the Lord our God in your ways. (I Peter 2:9)

            Beware,

                        “I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds  deserve.” (Jeremiah 17:10)

 

            Amen.

 

Things to remember and discuss:

  1. Self-reflect – Examine yourselves.
  2. Question your motives.
  3. Be honest with God. Confess your sins.
  4. Yield to the Holy One and submit yourselves to him.
  5. Seek the forgiveness of others.
  6. Don’t follow emotions. Follow truth. Search the scriptures for truth.
  7. Do what the Holy Spirit is guiding you to do.
  8. Speak righteously.

                  The Lord detests the thoughts of the wicked, but gracious words are pure in his sight. (Proverbs 15:26)