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Enoch

One Hit Wonder

“Enoch”

Not much is said about Enoch.  That makes him what our preacher has called a “One Hit Wonder.”  He lived 365 years and what little we know about him speaks volumes.  We know with certainty Enoch wasn’t a nomad living on a far off mountainside detached from society.  He had a family, possessions, neighbors, friends and foes.  The peculiar thing about Enoch seems to be his rise above the fray to maintain a great relationship with God.  However you may describe that relationship, it’s one to be envied. Don’t you wish you had that kind of relationship with God? One of the things we may not realize is that our faith influences our actions.  Consider Noah who built an ark at a time everyone surely thought he had lost his mind.  A boat?  In the middle of dry land?  What did he have at stake?  His reputation.  His pride.  Yet, his faith compelled him to build the ark anyway.

Moses, a man who didn’t speak well, hesitated.  “…Oh Lord, I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant.” (Ex. 4:10)  What did he have at stake?  His life.  Pharaoh could have killed him.  A legitimate fear.  Yet, Moses’ faith compelled him to go forth anyway and free his people.

Mary, a devout woman, was chosen by God to become pregnant with our Savior.  What would something so public cost her?  Humiliation.  The thought of being pregnant with no husband would threaten her good standing in the community.  She ran the risk of being stoned to death.  Yet, her faith compelled her to remain faithful and believe all that God had told her.

Paul, a Pharisee, felt righteous in his persecution of his fellow Jews for going against their religious traditions.  What was at stake?  Status.  He’d be the laughing stock of the synagogue and probably put to death.   Yet, Paul surrendered his will and obeyed God, facing ridicule from both Jews and Christians at the beginning of his ministry.  And even when the Christians finally believed he had indeed been chosen by God to lead the Gentiles to the faith, he still paid the ultimate price.  Death.

Each of these devout followers had something to lose if they chose to live for God.  Whether they ran the risk of being publicly humiliated or faced death, they remained faithful to the end.

It is not a question of IF we will be tested.  But rather, how will our faith influence our walk with God during that test?  Will our hearts pant for the Holy One amid our trials?  Please, let us not be caught sleeping (Luke 22:46), but let us always be in prayer.  Walk with God, not ahead of Him.

Donna B. Comeaux

Freelance Writer, Author

Written for Park Plaza Church of Christ

Tulsa, Oklahoma

August 18, 2013

GO TO Parkplaza.org to hear the sermon on Enoch. Once on the website, click “Media,” then click “One Hit Wonders.”  There is NO signin or registration.  ENJOY!

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I’m Still With You

I’m Still With You

I’m not sure what I would have done without the woman of my dreams

God knows I’d do anything and by any means

Given her the moon, the stars, my very last dime

To sway her, coax her, convince her please “Be mine?”

Eventually, her eyes opened, she  saw no other way

Our destiny was set, love blossomed that day

I  grinned, certain she’d be forever, ‘til death do us part

Now I am gone, I’ve broken her heart.

If there is any consolation my dear, my love, my wife of 27 years

The mountains we climbed and the hurdles we feared

Were nothing, absolutely nothing to cross, for the love in your eyes

Gave me all that I needed and much more besides.

There were times when the valleys took all of our strength

Waters flooded our path inch by inch

Waves bent us back, but we determined to pay

Any price, any calling, to dance to any piper’s tune

To love, be together, at peace in one room.

Don’t dwell on my departure for the remains of the day

Rather, remember happy times and how often we played

Recall the joy you brought me all of those years

The love we have still rings in my ears.

Without fail, I love you, I love you, I love you, Darlene

From every stuttered word to each glaring gleam

I’ll tuck you in tonight, you won’t even know I’m near

But by my love that still burns, sizzles, and comforts your fears.

by Donna B. Comeaux, Freelance Writer and Author

In loving memory of Michael Jacobs who departed us December 8, 2004

Dated December 9, 2004

(Revised August 17, 2013)

Please do not reproduce.

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Heaven

HEAVEN

Here is how I imagine it:

The grass is a luscious green, its path the roughest of gold

Angels welcome me in and applaud the victory I hold

As my feet try to touch the bottomless floor, I have questions galore

Til I lean on an angel’s arm, look up, and see there’s no floor or ceiling at all

Angels are smiling at me, bidding me “hurry, come in”

I hasten with glee before I notice my body has lost all its skin

Too distracted to sing with the others, I gaze at the beauty ‘round me

My heart so filled with awe ‘cause I’m not where I thought I’d be

The closer I get to His throne, the louder the angels do sing

As I listen closer to the hymn, it’s the one I prepared for the King

I stumble on His long purple robe, my eyes affixed on this day

An angel grabbed hold of my hand and led me the rest of the way

His wings enveloped me whole and gently he did lay me down

The songs of the angels now hushed, one pushed me and turned me around

There on the throne of my Lord, sat the King of great Kings, I adore

I lowered my head, prostrated in fear, I could look at His greatness no more

He brushed the ball of my back, and softly sat me high on His lap

Then He straightened and opened the book and read to me all of the facts

When He was done He lifted me up and pointed across the Great Room

“You,” He said, “have earned a room with a view and there is more to come

But I couldn’t let the angels escort me in, instead I fell in despair before Him

“How could you let me journey so far, I was bad and sometimes lost heart.”

“You repented,” He said softly to me, “and you bowed and surrendered your will.

See, the wicked believe in themselves.  I forgive only those who prevail.”

 by Donna B. Comeaux

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Land Squatters

Adverse Possession – Protect Your Forefather’s Land

Many years ago, my great-grandfather was given several acres of land with the distinct understanding between him and the seller that the property is never to be sold.  No one warned my generation to refrain from “neglect.”The land has been worked year after year and yields a well-known company billions of dollars while our family has sat by scrambling to get by.  Some family members have discouraged their children from going to college.  Others have forfeited vacations.  They simply can’t afford it.

When I was a kid, I used to watch old westerns.  One of the issues encountered was people squatting on land they didn’t own.  Lately, I’ve been dreaming about those westerns and I didn’t understand why until I received my monthly check from leasing proceeds.

I wondered if the proceeds from our property were fair.  That thought made me nervous.  After all, if there’s a problem, I might have to do something about it.  I ditched the idea and focused on finishing my novel.  My novel only acerbated the issue, because until now, I hadn’t realized that all the dreams, worries, and questions I had were seeping into the pages of my book.  The revelation stunned me.  I laughed for a moment.  I shed a tear.  Then I decided the time had come to use my fears as motivation.

Thoughts of losing our land were exorcised by an article I found entitled “Couple Loses Land to Squatter’s Rights Law.”  This article is a precious gift to people like you and me.  Before its discovery, I always assumed when you bought a piece of property, it was completely yours forever until you decided to sell it.  We all might need to rethink this.

We can all sit back and blame covetous neighbors, greedy businessmen, or sibling rivalry for theft of our property.  In the end, it’s our family’s fault for sitting on the backs of our forefathers who toiled endlessly to achieve the one thing they perceived to last from generation to generation—LAND!  We do a disservice to our forefathers when we squander what they worked so hard for.  We owe it to them to do everything we can to preserve their legacy through our integrity and kindness toward others.

Since doing nothing exhibits no kindness to our ancestors, we ought to get busy putting our forefathers’ house back in order.  With that in mind, I made a list of questions and searched the internet until I felt enough peace to appease my guilt.

Though the following steps may not be in the proper order, they are still relevant if you want to protect your family’s property.

  • Find out what the Land Squatters Law is in the state where your property is located.
  • If you don’t have a copy of the deed to the property, get one.  You will need the property description.  You may also need the deed in order to perform the next step.
  • Find out if an “adverse possession claim” has been filed against your property.  If some greedy business or neighbor wants your property, they will most likely have to file a claim against it.  It is possible this claim could be referred to by another name in other states.  You will need to investigate this and get familiar with the correct terminology for the state in which the filing may have occurred.
  • Call the County Assessors’ Office where your land is located.  They should direct you to a website where, hopefully, property owners are listed.  If anyone other than your family is listed, be concerned.  Get an attorney.
  • Be aware you can use the option of filing a trespassing action against the land user.  Further investigate this option.
  • Be aware a court injunction can be filed that forbids the land user on the property.  Further investigate this option.
  • If there’s a company leasing your property, get a copy of their annual report.  I think it’s always a good idea to know how much companies are profiting from using our land.
  • Take pictures of your property.  And I’d advise you to do this every year.  Since my family lives in one state and our property is in another, this is a good idea so everyone knows, especially the next generation, what should or shouldn’t be on the property.
  • Hire a land surveyor.  The sole purpose of a land surveyor is to measure the land to determine the boundaries and exact size of the property.  Don’t take this step lightly.  It will prove valuable in the end.
  • If your land is being leased to a company or individual, get a copy of the Lease Agreement.  Pay special attention to how long the Lease Agreement is for, who the Lease Agreement is with, and how much are the monthly payments.
  • Have your land appraised.  There can be a huge disparity between the fair market value and what you charge for a monthly lease for your land.
  • A year before the Lease Agreement expires; make sure monthly fees are comparable to the fair market value of your property, or to that of properties in the surrounding area.
  • Seek the advice of an attorney.  I know what you’re thinking—it’s too costly.  Most reputable attorneys won’t charge a consulting fee.  Don’t be afraid to ask the attorney what you and your family can do to curtail costs.  If your family is contentious, pray.  If they are cooperative, you will be surprised how your issues with your property can bring you and your family closer together.
  • Don’t be selfish.  The land belongs to the family, not one individual.  All of you are important.  If you have nine family members and you receive monthly lease payments in the amount of $1.00, split the dollar nine ways.  Or come to an agreement to have the monies put in a special fund to be issued to each family member at a later designated time.
What I have written here does not include everything that can and should be done to protect your family’s assets.  It will, however, get you started.  Remember, you can’t go wrong by seeking the advice of an expert attorney who specializes in land law.My family and I are learning more each day about how to be better stewards over our forefathers’ property.  I look forward to continuing this discussion so I can share what additional information I’ve gathered and experienced.  This has been a process, but one needed in order to recover from years of neglect.

We intend to make our great-great-grandfather proud.  Hope you do the same.  If not, next time you dig out your pennies to pay for college tuition, ask yourself this:  “Did my grandfather’s ship come in and I just missed it?”  Maybe you did.

Donna B. Comeaux is a freelance writer and novelist

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NOTE:  Also see this website for further information:  http://research.lawyers.com/blogs/archives/28754-Adverse-Possession.html
(dated October 26, 2013)

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